After Many days of thinking and wondering what's keeping me from
committing to love! I realized that it's not my case, it seems that
most women chase after their man without even knowing it. So the
problem is when you run after me or the man you love, not only do you
tend to unwittingly push him away, but in the end, you don't give him
the chance to show you how HE really feels about YOU. Please do take
that time apart to build love, it doesn't magically appear! It takes
years and hard work to keep evolving love. I know that some of you
will disagree but believe me I haven't met anyone as day dreamy about
love as I am. Yet, I know how frustrating it is to sit back and let
someone you care so much about drift away. But it's not drifting!
Can't be drifting unless on life support and in that case I tell you
to make love anywhere LOL....
Wanting to let them know that you are interested in them, wanting to
seem enthusiastic and easygoing. Still, you think that you know you're
not supposed to be chasing after your love, and yet you're doing it in
ways that you're not even aware of. It feels like smothering! Such an
aggressive way for man to feel that a woman is chasing him. The simplest way
to make one love you is to inspire them! Sounds corny but that's the
truth. Lust ends after a while and it's the inspiration that sparks
the crazy fire works. Inspire don't just admire.
The don't EVER do list:
"Calling him before he calls you. This includes calling him because
you heard or read about something interesting, or because you knew
there was a great show somewhere, or someone told you about some great
event that you want to invite him to or - anything at all. It also
includes calling to ask why he hasn't called you. Initiating contact.
E-mailing him, texting him, Facebooking him, sending him a cute card,
dropping by his house, or in any way attempting to initiate some kind
of contact. Making suggestions or plans. Inviting him to come and join
you, or in any way acting like the social director of the
relationship. Asking him how he feels. This includes, especially,
asking him how he feels about you or the relationship."
These are things lots of women do almost without even thinking about
it. These are things that feel natural and you excuse them by thinking
you're just being FREAK'EN friendly. And at the heart of this is one
fear: Feeling like you're going to lose the person you really love by
not letting them know you LOVE them. AND, NOTHING COULD BE FURTHER FROM THE TRUTH. Everything on this list is the same as putting a sign on your chest that says "Needy." It smacks of desperation and reeks of madness. And, it's just plain not attractive to any man on earth! I don't know some may LIKE it. Some may be flattered or he might have no one else around and so he'll go along with you. Perhaps even come to like you very much and end up in a relationship with you. But, you will NEVER know how he really and truly feels about you till you give him the chance to see the real inspiring beautiful you
So, my question now is WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?
